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Teach your child how to save

Admin — Tue, 08 Jun 2010 11:29:27 +0000

Saving money is really important. Even though my parents are well-off, they were able to teach me the value of saving money by buying me this huge plastic piggy bank. All throughout my elementary and high school years, my dad and I had a deal — whatever amount I was able to save in my piggy bank for the year, my dad will give me double so I could put it all in my savings account. I want to do the same with my kids. I want them to learn the value of money, and know how to save money. Although my parents’ method was effective, I think there are other alternatives nowadays. More modern methods of teaching kids how to save. One of these methods that I found is Ekomini.

This is actually the world’s first and only interactive web-enabled piggy bank. And it comes with an online educational game, Ekominiville.

This online games teaches children about saving, planning, and even donating to different social causes. My little Sab is just 3 years old, so it’s a bit young to start her on this program. This is best for children 6-12 years.

I hope they still have it when Sab and Sanjo turn 6.

Working Mom = Absent Mom ?

Admin — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 20:29:04 +0000

Now that I am starting to look for a full-time job OUTSIDE our home, again starts the debate with myself. Suddenly, I feel like it’s “not right” to start working, because my little Sanjo needs me. Even though I know that I will be working for his needs and his future, I can’t shake off the nagging feeling that a full-time working mom just isn’t as good as a full-time stay at home mom.

Then I remembered this particular episode on Oprah that I was able to watch. I remember the psychologist saying that “it doesn’t make you less of a mother if you choose to work full-time”.. I should start saying that repeatedly to myself, so that I can stop worrying that I’m a bad mother for choosing to work instead of taking care of my baby. It’s not that I won’t be taking care of Sanjo, I will still be taking care of him when I’m home, and during my days off. I just hope I can stop feeling guilty about working. If only my Bubby was earning enough for all our expenses, I can stay home. But we’re really struggling with our finances, and the online gigs I get aren’t enough to cover what we need.

So what is your take on this issue? Do you think that full-time working moms aren’t as good as full-time stay home moms?

“Ma-Ma”

Admin — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 06:04:22 +0000

I was supposed to post this the other day, but was just too busy to do it. LOL. Sanjo sat on my lap while I was working, and I was busy chattering about so as not to keep him bored. He likes having people talk to him, and he usually coos back or at least mouths an “ooh” or an “aah”. I was just surprised when he suddenly said “ma-ma”. And we were really surprised. JC was washing the dishes at that time, but he heard it too. He even “pretended” (not really just pretend but I know he’s sort of serious also) to be hurt. LOL. I guess every baby’s first word is mama. It’s just easier to say than Daddy or anything else. Hmm..

My Inspiration for 2010

Admin — Sat, 12 Dec 2009 00:57:00 +0000

Not everyone knows this, but some may be wondering why most of the time, it’s just Sanjo in my posts. You see, Sab doesn’t live with me. She hasn’t been living with me for a year now. My mom has been taking care of her, and I get to see her only a few times each year, when my mom comes home to the Philippines and brings her here to see me. They live in our hometown in Zamboanga City (although my mom is in and out of the country since my family is really based in the UK), where my cousin is the one my mom got to take care of Sab. I miss her terribly, and there are times I feel bad about myself because what kind of mother am I, when I am not the one taking care of Sab as I should be? True that she’s better off living with my mom because right now, what we earn is barely enough for my Bubby, me and Sanjo. Which is why for 2010, I aim to work harder, write better, because I believe that I can earn a stable income doing what I love best — writing. There are a lot of things that I need to learn, but I’m ready and willing to take the necessary sacrifices just to be better and eventually make it.

Busy Week Ahead

Admin — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 22:10:00 +0000

Just when I thought I can focus on building some traffic to my site and visit as much blogs as I can each day, I don’t think I can do those this week. I can probably bloghop a little bit, and probably do some of my traffic building activities, but for the most part, I’ll just be posting entries here. My mom just arrived yesterday, and so me and Sanjo are spending time with her and Sabyn before they go back to the province this Saturday. I have to make the most out of it since it may not be until the Christmas holidays till I get to see them again. Yesterday was quite fun since we were excited with all the “pasalubong” that my mom bought for us. Sabyn and Sanjo are too spoiled. They each got like a truckload of clothes like there’s no tomorrow. My mom super spoils her grandchildren. Which isn’t a bad thing. She just spoils them with new stuff, but she’s quite strict too. She’s a disciplinarian, not like me who’s a total softy. She doesn’t like them acting out, especially when in public. You can see that with Sabyn. She’s two and a half but she has never had a crying spell nor acted out when we’re out in the malls, or wherever. So I don’t have any qualms about my mom spoiling my children. I have 2 more hours to do my tasks today, and then we have to leave again to go to my mom’s place. So friends, please forgive me if I won’t be able to visit your blog everyday for the next 4 days. I will try my best anyway.